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On screen, we should be demanding better roles for people of color, period—as lovers, teachers, comedians, friends, and flawed heroes in shows and moves that tackle race, in those that don’t, and in everything in-between.
While I appreciate some of the nuanced discussion on how race intersects with dating preferences, there’s something quite stinging about reducing the choices we make in romance to just wanting to be white.
” “Yes, we would,” Adichie responds without hesitation, to a chorus of approving laughter. “When I think of my own family: I’m married to a white man and my brother is married to a white woman.
My little brother has a black girlfriend, dark-skinned.
One person told me she was “tired” of seeing black and brown people dating white people.
And I’m not alone: several black and Asian friends tell me they’ve reached a point that they feel awkward introducing their white partners.
“Why are brown men so infatuated with White women onscreen? “By earning white love,” we’re told in another think piece, a nonwhite character “gains acceptance in a society that has thwarted them from the very beginning.” In the hit US network show , the love triangle between the indomitable Olivia Pope and two powerful white men has been subject to intense scrutiny over the last five years, with some now having to defend Pope (who is literally portrayed as the de facto leader of the free world) from accusations that the show reduces her to “a white man’s whore.” Real people have also faced harsh criticism for their romantic choices.I was also nervous about introducing him to my Somali-Yemeni family.It wouldn’t have surprised me if they balked: Families forbidding dating outside the clan is a story much older than .Should someone’s dedication to fighting oppression be defined by the race of their partner?Does dating a white person make you any less black? But it’s a complicated issue, one that British author Zadie Smith (author of ).