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I tend to be more about the personality than the physical.
BUT - I despise the fact that he sabotages every diet attempt I make and ignores his health, as doing so is essentially a way of saying he doesn't care what happens to me when he dies. For turnabout, the answer is yes - women will still be attracted to you if you have a good personality, nice manners, decent hygiene, etc.
I would LOVE someone to join me on an hour run on the weekend. He is aware that he doesn't look or feel great, but he's not very self-motivated, so he's struggling to make changes.
I can't help him that much either because he is intimidated by my fitness level and also HATES doing anything just for the sake of exercise.
Saturday, June 21, 2008, PM I'm turned off by fat men (more than 40 lbs overweight) for the same reason "shuts the attraction off" - obesity is a sign that something's wrong in his life and he's not dealing with it. Saturday, June 21, 2008, PM I LOVE a well rounded chubby man!
Not huge and blubbery with monster thighs that rub together when he walks.
Maybe because I try to stay fit/toned myself, I feel that men should do the same to stay healthy.
Saturday, June 21, 2008, PM Only very recently have I started viewing fit & toned men as more attractive than fat men.
I used to generally be drawn to fat men and prefer to date them because I didn't want to date anyone who was smaller than me or had a much fitter body than me; it was a total attraction killer.
Saturday, June 21, 2008, PM To be honest, I really can't help but to be attracted to muscles!
Not like scary bodybuilder muscles, but great definition and strong arms/back.